Try to imagine this yourself.
You got everything that you wanted except for one thing. And that is somebody to talk to. The people living around you is always busy until they really neglected you. Yet you try your best not to disturb any of them. You simply can't stand the silence. What should you do? Entertaining yourself by playing PSP and watching the tv will only take a moment of your time. You will feel the loneliness back again once you're done with it. The urge to call up somebody and have a chat is just too strong. You know they're busy working. So, do you still call them or forget the matter and let yourself whine and sulk the whole day?
Let's say that one of the people is your boyfriend. Or maybe your girlfriend if you're a male. Your parents are also busy working and the only closest person you can talk to is your other half. And he is also working his ass off everyday to earn a living. He is always so busy that he simply can't take a 5 minutes break to rest and call you all because he wants to finish his workload on the day itself. And whenever he's at home, you can't take the chance to have a long chat with him because he's already tired and needed a rest. All of the stories that you've been wanting to share with him had to be hold on until you finally find the right time to tell. Even at times, he will take up the only day that both of you get to spend time together to do his work. Do you really blame him for not dividing his own time or the job?
Then one day, you simply can't stand the neglection that you really had to voice out to him. Instead of expecting an answer that you wanted, he went totally against you. He got angry and said things like you kept asking for more and never be satisfied. At some point, you really feel guilty. But you just HAD to voice out because you really can't stand it anymore. So, how? How are you going to get him to stop you from feeling this way?
To compare yourself and him, you really know how to divide your time no matter how busy you are. You really want him to adapt some of your ways so that you'd also feel contented instead of the neglection and insecurity. BUT he simply doesn't want to. How? What would you do?
